The key, during the amusement of trying to win the game, everyone works together contributing their individual knowledge to help the team as a whole. Over time, the more names you learn, the more qualities you learn, the better you will know everyone in the room. The team loses whose members all are out first. They live and breathe it, which is great - but what about the partners and families? The ball is placed in the transporter tube, say by the team member at 12 o'clock. Usually this sort of classification is subjective, unhelpfully judgemental, and sometimes of course it's unfair to the point of being illegal discrimination.