It violates you over and over again. He says Jacobs has launched a World Wide Web witch-hunt that could ensnare other innocent men like him. The charges may have been dropped, but for Seay, the fight to clear his reputation has just begun. D during her ordeal, channeled her pain into advocacy for women similarly victimized by ex-boyfriends, who -- without their knowledge or consent -- posted photos meant to be private in the most public and humiliating way. Seay tells another story.